I got a request for this list and, well, I just couldn't say no.
I don't have any experience in the realm of taking nude photos. I've never taken them or, thankfully, posed for them. But I have looked at millions of nude photos... my career has led me to develop a fundamental understanding of making people look good in the visual media... and, because I just am who I am, I've carefully analyzed the fallout of many celebrity nude photo and sex tape scandals.
And, armed with all that knowledge, I came up with these 11 secrets and tricks for taking nude or erotic photos almost instantly. Enjoy.
Extending the arm for a self-portrait is a God-given Myspace right.
Don't take the photos yourself. Myspace has done a lot of damage to the world. But beyond setting web design back a solid 12 years and occasionally making people commit suicide, one of its true cardinal sins was making people think it was OK to take self-portraits by extending their arm as high and far as they can and taking a photo of themselves.
Yes, you look better from a super-high angle. It hides every chin except your primary one and up to 240 pounds. But your nude photos shouldn't include you extending your arm. That's not a "sexy" angle, it's a lazy angle.
Your best bet in making the photos look good is to have someone else take them. They'll be able to capture you from multiple angles, from multiple distances... and without your arm hyperextended.
If you don't want to bring in anyone else for your naked photo shoot, at least put your camera on a tripod (or makeshift tripod, like books stacked up on a dresser) and use the timer.
Groom properly. Today's cameras are way too powerful for their price. Which means they pick up everything. Everything includes: Razor bumps... redness from fresh waxing... splotchy teeth... C-section scars... that one black hair growing near your nipple... stretch marks... and varicose veins.
By waxing/plucking/Epil Stop and Spraying the day before, you can fix some of the blemishes you'd get from day-of hair removal. You can get around the rest of the stuff with liberal use of make-up. (Yes, if you're a guy taking nude photos, you can use make-up too.)
And you should use make-up. Because, odds are, you're not good enough with Photoshop to properly fix that stuff in post... and airbrushing isn't going to be at your fingertips.
The most important reason to fix all this stuff is because you MUST be confident for the photos. If you're embarrassed or (overly) self-conscious or holding back, it will show.
Don't eat on shoot day. Have you ever gone a day without eating anything? It completely changes the way you feel. When you look in the mirror, you'll just feel like you look great. It doesn't matter if you weigh 95 pounds or 295... if you go without eating for the day, when you look in the mirror, you'll think you look better.
So don't eat on shoot day. (If you're anorexic, on shoot day, skip the can of Diet Coke for breakfast and lettuce leaf for lunch to avoid third worlding out your belly.)
By not eating, you'll (1) look better without a meal sitting in your belly and (2) more importantly, feel like you look better. It comes back to that confidence thing.
Do you want to become a headless adult from a Peanuts cartoon? Tough call.
Think long and hard before you decide to include your face. The biggest decision you have to make is whether you want your face included in these photos. Let's break down the pros and cons.
Reasons to include your face:
Your eyes, not body, dictate the sexiness of the photos. Really. Everything is in the eyes.
It's much less sexy to look at a nude photo where the head's missing.
If you're considering nude photos, you're clearly confident with your physical appearance, and some of that confidence probably comes from your facial attractiveness.
By taking out the face the photos go from "erotic" to "OK, that's a nude body, so what?"
If it looks like your head's chopped off and you don't have a jack-o-lantern under your arm, the recipient(s) of the photos can't even make the "Ichabod Crane" you totally know they would.
Reasons to not include your face:
Exponentially increases your plausible deniability if (and, let's be honest, when) the photos get out into the wild.
If you ever have a famous family member, get murdered or wind up on a reality show, your ex won't be able to make six figures selling the copies of the photos (that he "promised he tore up") to "US Weekly".
You can get kinkier if your face isn't associated.
You can always wear a mask and go for an "Eyes Wide Shut" theme.
Although that might mean you have to explain "Eyes Wide Shut" to the recipient of the photos or, even worse, sit through it with them.
So it's your call, and it's a big one. Some people don't have a problem with nude photos of them existing in the world. Some people do. I, personally, do. The classy dames on "Girls Gone Wild" who sign away the lifetime rights to their nude image in exchange for a $4 tank top clearly do not.
This one wasn't part of my original list of ruined sexy photos, but belongs. The crying baby and his crib in the background = not sexy.
So, before you shoot, get everything even remotely unsexy out of the room: Family photos, Scarface posters, garbage, unmade bed sheets, your kid. Almost no stuff is always better. You can use props, but shooting in an extremely clean, minimalist space guarantees the focus will stay on you.
Don't eff up the lighting. Rather than write an essay about how to properly light photos, I'm going to just give three quick pointers. I feel like they'll stick better that way, which is good -- because if you eff up the lighting, you will hate the way you look in the photos, develop a complex about how you look naked, and start wearing denim cutoffs when you shower.
Do not use the flash. The flash is not your friend. It's harsh, it screws up your eyes, and it will wash you out and make you look terrible. So turn off the flash and light yourself a different way.
Use soft light. Take the lamps you have and do one of two things with them. Either point them at white surfaces, like the ceiling or walls, to bounce light off them... or point them right at you, but put white tissue paper over them to diffuse them. This makes the light soft, forgiving and sexy.
The sun is the best light. The sun is the best light source there is. Of course, this means taking nude photographs outdoors. Which puts you at a risk of someone else... well, taking nude photographs of you. And probably with a better camera. So, um... go for it, I guess. Just don't get arrested.
Hopefully that very, very, very basic Lighting 101 lesson will help you avoid making a gaffe. Get it??? GAFFE?!? HI-YO!!!
Go for black-and-white. This will help you plead the "art" defense if your mom, grandma, pastor or assistant pastor somehow get their hands on the photos. You're looking for "Playboy" here or, at the worst, Cinemax. When you start venturing into "Hustler" or "Club" or "Backdoor Sluts 9" territory, no amount of black-and-white can class you up.
Black-and-white nude photos are, generally, artistic. Unless you're taking super-extreme close ups of your genitalia. Which bring us to the next point...
Be very, very careful with close-ups of your genitalia. Because it will, literally, destroy you if you take a bunch of nude photos, you hand them to your boyfriend, he's looking through them with a huge smile on his face, then flips to a photo taken three inches from your vulva and instinctively recoils. And possible makes a "Little Shop of Horrors" comment.
Chins appear when the camera drops.
Pick proper angles and shots. There's no human being that looks good from every angle. You need to find the angles that work best for you. Experiment with lots of different angles during your shoot, because you never know what's going to work. But, in general, there are a few angles that should be avoided at all costs.
From below - This camera angle could give Tom Hanks in "Philadelphia" a double chin. Or Tom Hanks in "Angels and Demons" a quintuple chin.
Bent over from behind - Human beings were not meant to be viewed bent over, from behind. At least not in photo form. You'll freak out that your buttocks seem to expand out and cover the entire width of the photo (even if the telephoto lens is used). And, unless you're full-out Brazilianed, be prepared to see hair you never needed to see.
With you scrunched over - Extending your body is flattering. Scrunching your body down is not.
Also, although I didn't put it on that list, make sure not to take every picture when you're too "excited." That goes for both genders. It might come off as unnatural to the point where it's noticeable... and you may find you look even better when you're not completely at attention.
Don't look at your photos halfway through. I can't recommend this enough. The single best way to be self-conscious (other than your little brother busting in on your photo shoot and yelling "you look like a fat asshole") is to scroll through the camera halfway through the shoot.
As the shoot progresses, you'll become more and more comfortable. You need to get into that zone of relaxation, experimentation, confidence. Seeing your photos will jar you out of it.
As a human being, there's no one more critical of your body than you. (Lorenzo Lamas on "Are You Hot?" excepted.) So you'll notice the tiny size difference in your breasts, the way your nostrils flare, your elongated earlobes, your birthmark, your off-center labia, your patchy leg hair.
But no one else will, and, remember, no one else would care. Keep your confidence by waiting unitl the end of the shoot to look at your photos; let your photographer direct you and help guide you into the best poses.
Make a plan for the future of the photos. Naked photos of you now exist. You need to have a plan. Will you download them onto your computer, print them once, then delete the files off your hard drive and camera? Did you use a Polaroid? Will you put them on your cell phone to "sext" (isn't that what the kids are calling it these days)?
Whatever your plan is, take whatever privacy measures you can to give yourself a 0.004 percent chance that they won't fall into the wrong hands. Because there's a 99.996 percent chance they will. But if you don't take these precautions, that jumps up to 99.999.
I like those odds. Go forth and erotify!
This post was originally published on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 at 10:00:00 AM under the category Dating & Sex.